La Donna è cosa complessa.
Lungi da me voler scrivere un post femminista alla "quello che le donne non dicono"che detesto,però,completamente immersa nell'influenza stagionale del figliolame,rifletto su tali considerazioni,fra tosse,febbre e sputi.
Le donne nascono corredate di senso di colpa.
Le donne sono tormentate dal senso di colpa. That
crepetta silly, there now seems less interesting than the scapegallows (I do phonological easy joke but I will not be too vulgar sides), have an empty hole seems worse than having something more, something sweet, smooth and tiepidino, anything that moves, changes, reacts to even the minimum, a friendly pet worm is better than a piaghetta pink pig.
is one thing to pee standing up straight and puffed, and choreographic potential to produce a beautiful arch without even using his hands, stopping only for a while outdoor games, an account instead of having it apart, stripped entirely, crouch as if We are ashamed, wet panties and shoes paint, to grasp a tissue, otherwise it is watery and smelly until the evening (the sgrullìo no raises at all).
When urinate then, parents do everything they can because no one will watch even if you have five years, while males pissing everywhere, like animals that mark the territory with skill. It creeps slowly
doubt that you possess something dirty, wrong, too attractive.
This creates the prehistory of guilt.
The origin of the woman. (We even stole a rib to the poor in his underwear fig ...) In
feel around the mother and the father of the boys who say to their children through clenched teeth: "Do not cry're not a sissy. " Also
educate us now to please others, to be pretty, pretty, pretty, polite, quiet and sit down to teach you well (which is bad if a child has no problem to sit down with her legs spread while playing carefree?), you comb and you dress in a way uncomfortable with tight stockings, short skirts, blouses with lace that you always get in your mouth, you give trucchini, beads, vacuum cleaners and irons miniature porcelain cups of pretend tea and slippers studs and purple hair, if you say the market well with the artichokes and carrots in plastic. For males
instead give always the case of nuclear, chemical and the fantastic, the wood lanes and powerful machines, the soldiers fucksters, the puzzle brain breaks, the gormiti that save the planet.
While the children run like wild horses from school, girls are afraid to lose the small springs with rhinestones that my mother paid a fortune and who reminds us frequently.
They teach us to change, to modify them to be accepted, while boys are taught that they fit well, you just need to develop their innate strength.
A great woman, you feel guilt for three-quarters of his life, if you choose between family and work, between the study and marriage, including salary and bottles.
A woman, if she is pregnant and is home to a high-risk pregnancy, abstaining from work, he feels blame for the exploitation of society at the expense of taxpayers (whether you are a taxpayer, inter alia, no one remembers him) and was heard to say: "nice life without doing anything you blessed."
And to you: do pregnancy tests every month hoping that all goes well, do blood tests, ultrasound, guided hateful, continually piss, vomit eyes, put on weight of twenty pounds in nine months, afraid to smoke, drink , ill, to eat something wrong or infected, fear of falling or sliding, or taking a ball to the park and do harm to your child, have threatened abortion, threats of confinement, not ever sleep, breathe a rock on the diaphragm, or who fail to do inseminations, bites you swell like a pig, controlled the temperature and ovulation, open your belly with a C-section, exhausted his genitals, broke down the back, trying to give a future society, to cultivate hope for the future .. it seems a good life? really believe that this is not done nothing?
women when they return to work after childbirth are pulled from the breast milk during lunch and weep in secret for leaving the baby at home a few months, the women, if they remain at home after giving birth lose all contact, throw studies and career path, take the thirty percent of salary, all the Schifano and colleagues pointed out as an unambitious, women feel guilty when the first meetings after they have children, forget the latest cutting-edge test understanding of the language or when other control how often calls home and then accuse it of excessive anxiety or on the contrary, of marked indifference. (who can always call your children? Could not call them that?)
If you're a mother careful suffocate children if they are released are a sciamanna, clean home if you are frustrated and depressed, if not clean you are a filthy verging on suicide, if you prepare your kids organic food are a determined fanatic, if you buy six baby foods killer, and then all down, except no one who feel entitled to judge you as a mother wide open, "but you still breastfeeding?" or, "but that you've taken away the milk, but do not know what's good?"
"do not give them a pacifier? But from the dummy, but you know that breaks the donkey's mouth?"
"but not the lullaby so the vices, but did not take her up you crazy?" But why do not you take it in my arms you're a monster? It may never be contact ... "
" I do not have to cover that goes well windy but dry wind, "" cover it that you do not feel that come the bronchopneumonia moisture
?..." "but always enough to talk to your child who eats little, enough of this anxiety that is not growing, which weighs thin as a wren, leave it in peace, "but do not see what your child is thin, but you do eat?" but you did the test of intolerance? "
no.Ai fathers for fathers no one says anything, if only the fathers are tenderly put his arms around their babies, fathers generate joy, not discussed, "already so we play with children, blessed you ..."
Oh but already so what? These are his children, and why he did not scold him if you do not burp him and looked at him with that look of deer in love?
A woman-mother feels guilty if your child is ill (the usual background chorus of voices popular type sirens of Odysseus, "the cover too much, you do sweat, homeopathy from the wicked, administering too many drugs) but no one congratulated them if the children do not get sick and they're fine.
A woman mom, if you have more than one child, lives the guilt of neglecting one is afraid to do less than what he did for the other, and to lift all the say, "sure you can see that you have a soft spot for the first / second eh, I do not deny the".
A woman feels guilty if you take care of themselves because they are too extravagant and ephemeral (there mascara with the money you bought diapers) or if you care little for its image (but you do not comply, does not meet your man, you post partum depression? then he is right if he goes in search of other women).
A woman feels guilty if she betrays her partner even if he does not touched for years or not is never a compliment, or feel guilty if you decide to do so, and betrays itself every day.
A woman feels guilty if looked after her man too because it's not a baby, and feels guilty if he does not say that because otherwise it fails.
If a man is the helpless woman to cuddle and play down, if a woman is frigid and frightening it away.
If a man has it too small it is important that we do know that women do not feel at fault if a woman has her breasts too small and fly is better than face the augmentation is otherwise not a woman really.
A woman, a secretary is difficult to twenty years younger with which to escape and leave home, a woman feels inadequate as a daughter if the mother-in-law is nice, because then it means that falsa,o se è troppo riservata ed allora vuol dire che è stronza.
Una donna,da ragazza,appena si fidanza,vive il senso di colpa che le butta addosso suo padre girando per casa muto,deluso,"tradito".
Una donna si sente in difficoltà se chiede aiuto ed anche se non lo chiede,una donna viene giudicata facile se scherza con gli altri mentre gli uomini sono solo dei gran simpaticoni se fanno lo stesso,le donne sono circondate da significati sessuali,pervase di sesso,basta che una donna si vesta bene ed indossi i tacchi,perchè le sbavino e fischino dietro senza poter camminare tranquilla,se si copre troppo non la caga nessuno,se sceglie la carriera militare è lesbica,se va in televisione si è fatta trombare dal produttore,se enter into policy sucking was a senator, if they were raped unstuck, if it is not fucking nerve to say that if the street than on the right is a slut while a man only an asshole.
Why is there always this bitter and demeaning connection with sex when you have to judge a woman?
Summing this is certainly a difficult life, including hair cuts do not realize that anyone lives on the tightrope trapeze existence, trying to be good cooks, mirabilanti lovers, good housewife, good mothers, workers competitive, big savings, women with something to say, women who read, study (but not too much), who care and are pulled and polished, but here we are, and uncertain melancholy as the evening of the eight March (there is nothing sadder to me), lost and aggressive on the streets of the world, tired and nervous at home and at work ... well, I believe that Freud is dead trying to unravel the complex Electra.
With Oedipus has been a breeze.
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